Marcel Rufo, psy spécialiste de l allaitement.

Strange title? Of course we have to note theirony of this title.Is reading the article of Valérie, blogs At Mommy Dodo I long, I could discover all knowledge of Mr. Rufus breastfeeding.I'm never watching his program, it happens only after the nursery, but I took the time to watch the replay ... I'll let you judge yourself if you haven't seen: here.This poor mother who just came to ask for advice to begin the weaning of her 3-year-old daughter finds herself overwhelmed and it is certainly not emerged Show reassured ... But the worst for me, these are the words of psychologist for the child ... Implement the fault, almost scolding and explain things that she does not understand or they simply don't want to hear ... Do good thing?And the State as a 3-year-old girl's head, which moves without stopping, is a girl who has a problem and should consult ... I find that is a diagnosis a little fast?It seems normal for a child of 3 years is not known to remain in place ... That is not often went into the nursery! And then put them on a TV tray with everything you need to discover ...I am deeply forbreastfeeding, without being an extremist of breastfeeding. I have over 6 months of breastfeeding, which made me enter the stage of prolonged breastfeeding, and I am pleased, just as my Girafon. Personally, I will not go up to 3 years of breastfeeding, but it's just my choice. And of course I'm shocked not long feedings ... In many countries of the world, very long feedings are common and not offend anyone! While breastfeeding must stop one day or another, the good development of the child as it detaches from the body of the mother, to grow and to overcome his Oedipus complex ... But the child knows will wean naturally, he "programmed" for that! Mother is not ceramic at the University!And breast-feeding has many advantages and good sides!My Girafon which has now 7 months, head more or less depending on the day, is a paste pot small but for a child at this age are breastfed or not is not quite normal? Is a real pile, never stops ... then I can imagine perfectly well for 3 consecutive years anywhere, do keep in place ... and then? Should it refer? It will be a problem because it doesn't always want to remain silent to listen to an adult watching it in the whites of the eyes?In short, this show put me angry! I have worth for this mother and her baby, that is found are overwhelmed and nearly humbled on a TV tray ... from an incompetent from a psychologist who was not formed to talk about breastfeeding ... Of psy, from one media psychologist Nick, a simple TV trays psy.Because I am convinced that there are very competent psychiatrists and psychologists who are in real life and not just anchored in their theories.Finally ... cheers the lactation consultants, that could certainly do this MOM real advice, without trial, without the guilt. Who could tell him that there is nothing abnormal that his daughter sucks, can still enjoy a little though it is normal that she was demanding a withdrawal, that there are other children who have not has never been in before entry to school and that ca is not the social case provided ... in short, spoke to someone competent and complete.Then Mr Raju, I would say just to learn how to measure your words and please be quit talking about what you're family!Also find articles from: