Still dare to say that I am a bad mother. (As mother # 3)

Today, my third participation in the mother being initiated by Babidji, little devils and RockandMom.
For me, being a mother is knowing escape established frameworks.  Certainly you've heard or read all those sordid stories that make the headlines ... This girl who lived for months in the trunk of a car, the mother who pasted her daughter's hands at the stroke of wall glue, this nothing but tore his testicles of anger of his son ...I don't want to judge those mothers, I don't know the life, or their history. On the other hand condemn these barbaric acts ... I also understand as it may be to think of making such horrors. These children do not deserve this.So when I say it is my fault if my Girafon sleep so badly, why not let the cry, and therefore prevented from finding just sleep ...When they told me that the co-sleeping is a bad habit ...When we declare me again I shouldn't carry so much my baby, that I will not breastfeeding too long, which I mistakenly used etcBref when insinuates that I take bad, because of course others know him better, I tell myself that if being a bad mother ... If you are listening to the needs of my children, have made the choice of nursery proximal ... and Well then I'm a bad MOM, but I prefer to be part of this category of outraged mothers.(This article is not designed to start any debate or to download his hatred towards mothers at the beginning, to whose moderating your comments! ...) I say and I repeat, I do not judge those mothers but I don't condone their acts, but this article is not intended to make their process, will do justice)