These mothers. These extremists of breastfeeding.

Naively, I thought that the universe of proximal maternage was the land of care bears, everyone was Open and tolerant, just like parents who practice it are often criticized and judged.I started well the finger in the eye.If biberonnantes of moms, often criticize those leaving mourn their baby breastfeeding Moms, those cododotent or bearing a lot ... and although among mothers of maternantes, there are actually people more intolerant.Some time ago I joined a facebook group about breastfeeding, to share tips etc. I was left just a few hours. Having participated in some discussions, made the acquaintance of these perfect moms, these extremists of breastfeeding... And I was wounded for moms who asked to be reassured and they found themselves overwhelmed. -If breastfeeding and diversify your child before six months, is a mother indignant. -If the water to her baby breastfed offers in the summer because we tired of having non-stop breast, is a mother indignant. -If you decide to put a place mixed breastfeeding senoè a mother indignant. -If you stop breastfeeding natural weaning immediately, because you're tired, because there sick or for any other reason, is an unworthy mother.Then ... imagine what a mother who doesn't want to nurse ... or that only PEUT not ... What is a mother who does not deserve to be?I read things just really unlikely and displaced. It seems that if you vary your child "soon" cannot bring a physiological and natural feeding (explain to me then what is my breastfeeding? ...) and then more on harassing our children, because they are not giving the best. If we give him ... misery as is often done with a bottle (Ooh is wrong!)... And I spent some much worse ... by ugly reflections that will necessarily be blaming the poor mother who asked only a little comfort or advice.So I hesitated before writing this article, but this turned to me. Why yes I breastfeed, but I'm not an extremist nor a perfect mother and I respect every mother, regardless of whether his choices I agree with mine. And thin!

 We cannot let every mother to be and become what he wants?I say stop these perfect and these mothers breastfeeding extremists who consider it with the shovel, which are struggling. I say stop. And if you pass by there, perfect mothers, do not leave a comment.I'm not perfect, that diversified my 4 months and a Girafon half all breastfeeding. I decide to give him water. Then can argue violently. To stay between you, even malicious and that you are.Yes, it's a mugshots, written perhaps too much anger. But some time ago I fâchais me against those who thought breastfeeding and maternal care, but has worsened.